Show the other person your genuine interest in the relationship you share with them. Love should not be just a feeling inside your heart. We’ve been together for several months and he asked and asked me to move in and he just started to change when I am trying to heal from a very bad injury. Read my Privacy Policy. “Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.” – Bertrand Russell. I so appreciate these truths and your prayers! Spend time together in small increments. Both ends should create positive emotions. I’m praying and asking God to work in your relationship and give you His peace. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if people were easier? “Love is not a feeling, it’s an ability.” It’s time to admit there’s an issue. This, of course, is not possible. An excellent way to practice kind and honest communication to use a formula. As a counselor, it’s impossible to list out all the benefits, but the most important one for couples is this: A counselor can help you consciously create the love you want, so you’re happy in your relationship. Fixing a damaged or broken relationship isn’t immediate. Hi deb, I am having a very stressful and sad time. (Read this next: 16 Empowering Quotes About Breaking Up and Moving On), P.S. I’m praying for you and asking God to give you His peace and to work all things for His glory in your life. Have someone role model and support you through the process of talking with your partner in new, more loving ways. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. I want you to remember that. But regaining a loving relationship with a sister or brother is well worth the effort. But when your love is true and pure, you want to remind your partner to hold on and fight for your love. However, when relationships go berserk, we feel heartbroken. There’s a variety of ways relationships find their way to being broken, yet, the road back to love is always the same. “Love is not enough. One key point to note whenever you put in efforts to fix a broken relationship is – Never ever bring in the past bitterness between you in the present. I wish I could tell you that those relationships are restored. Irrespective of whoever was the reason for the split up or whatever justification you have from your side, go for an open talk. Let’s take this time to miss each other and realize how much we need each other. Find Out If Your Relationship Is In Trouble And What You Need To Make It Last. And if it’s an ability, it’s something we can get better at. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. Can you fix a broken relationship? Heal our hearts, Father. Call your partner to say, “Just wanted to let you know I was having sweet thoughts of you.”. Wouldn’t it feel wonderful to have your partner acknowledge how much their actions hurt you? I cannot seem to give up my prayers are persistent but I am not seeing results.